"Officially" piecing... now the real work begins..

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I remember asking my H what positive things he learm from himself or what he liked that maked him happy inthe other R that he'd like to see in us. His response was ..nothing, he didnt' want to remember the R w/ow, that he only wished it had never happened, that he didn't even want to think of it nor any details.

So this kind of question can be asked, not the buthead questions I'd asked "what did you do w/her in bed that was so great" and stuff, some questions like "how long did it last" and such can be asked, any other details will just sicken you and pop up first thing in the am and not leave you alone.