yeah, my H is still in it. He is living with her and her parents/brother. Really disturbing. It's like he was adopted by another family. We are not legally seperated or divorce. My H has filed at the end of Sept. but I have yet to see the papers.
I have done so much reading on MLC, etc. that I forget what I read where.
What I have read is that our mlc-was are in love with the feel good anti-dotes that the ow give them, that they really aren't in love with them. I hope those feelings wear off soon.
It's a shame that your friend won't take any of your advice. I wonder if a lot more people used dbusting, how much the divorce rate would drop in this country. I think there are too many people who throw in the towel too fast. I am not going to be one of them.
