root- Just wanted to chime in about something you said. I never thought of my H's affair as an "exit affair" until you just gave me that thought. My H did tell me that he knows ow is not for him, but he knows I'm not either. He did also tell me he is in love with her but I choose not to believe that. I don't think he is capable of loving anyone right now. Besides which, since he is in MLC, I can't believe anything he has said.
