"Officially" piecing... now the real work begins..

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making their relationship out to be this incredible love affair

oh yes, I think we are all guilty of that, making castles in the air about the A, a few times we had arguments I'd bring it up, until at some point he confesed he wasnt "performing" as well 'cause of stress, so much for the incredible sl I thought they had.

I was just thinking today that my H must really had strong feelings 4 her 'cause all the money he threw trying to please her. And then I remember, he was trying to buy some peace and contentment for himself, it wasnt' all her, he wanted to look good and was truly throwing caution to the wind, the kind of thing he would've NEVER done any other day of his life, he was truly "away"

So remember that, it wasn't love but the illusion of it, there were feelings there, but not the true feelings our H's had when they married us, that was true love.