well, some good things come out of exposing the A, after I discovered the truth he erased all her old TM and info from his phone and never called her again, though he'd stopped calling her 1 mth before I found out, but that pretty much quelled any other smart ideas about conctacting her, I made it clear that I was not going to tolerate him talking to her for any reason whatsoever.
Well, glad you are coming to terms, or are begining to come to terms wiht it running, I know the info will haunt you for a few more good weeks, but it pray you fight it and that the sting lessesn each time))))))))))))
Quote: I think that knowing the person I was before, he was probably afraid I'd cave his skull.
LoL TL, you crack me up!
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
I'm pretty feisty myself, what I lack in height I make up in attitude. My H once told me after an exchange "do you know how to tell a poisonous snake? by the pits on her head!" (I have big dimples)
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
OMG!!!! You guys are too funny!!!!! Please hijack anytime. My thread can always use some comic relief.
I have to admit I have been very unsettled. Last night I went to the gym late and then Starbucks so I could avoid my husband. I was even thinking of going out with girlfriends tonight to avoid him some more, but this morning I got a little more of my concerns and worries out (in a good way). I told him some things that bothered me (things I'd probably just hold in and stuff inside. Unfortunately, stuffing things can be damaging too...).
There was a little tension in the exchange, but it WAS communication rather than avoidance (which is a problem we've both had in the past). It wasn't fighting or blaming, but I was sharing some of my feelings. My husband then left for work. About 10 minutes later he returned with a bouquet of flowers and thanked me for talking with him. I immediately started crying (happy crying) and hugged him. Am I easily bought or what????
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
LoL TL, you crack me up! 
