Well....my husband flies back and will be home this evening. I'm really proud of myself for not "freaking out" about the chance that he saw OW.

My guess is that he most likely did because he probably wouldn't have even admitted to a "chance" if it wasn't going to actually happen. He probably knew for sure, but didn't want to worry me... even though he may not run into her for years, there's always a chance a business meeting at her part of company might include her. But heck, maybe she'll quit!!! That would be good. (She should really should be spending more time with her baby daughter anyway!).

Of course I'm guessing all this about him running into her, but I think what's more important is that the idea of them coming in contact didn't bother me too much. That's HUGE!!!

I am glad to have a chance to work on my marriage and have my family together. I love my husband and will treat him like treasure, but if he leaves me tomorrow I'm not going to fall apart.

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.