I'm sooo glad to hear you had a wonderful Saturday night with your husband!!!! My husband sent me some really sweet text messages today.
I had snuck a romantic musical Hallmark card in his luggage and he found it when he arrived at the hotel room this morning. He texted me a message that said I was never second choice. This is something that has bothered me few times. Most of the time I never think about it, but a few times I've felt sad about the idea that perhaps the only reason he's with me is because OW didn't leave her husband.
The text message made me feel really good. It's kind of surprising to me how much closer I feel to my husband. I've heard, and read, about others building a better marriage post affair(s), but never really understood how until now.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
