You are absolutely right. Thank goodness this feeling did pass (of course not before I did call and explain the affair in more detail to her husband... I know.... I am being mean and vindictive and it certainly doesn't make me a better person... except I don't scre% other people's husbands... ).
Fortunately my husband is being incredibly patient and understanding, but that doesn't mean I want to continue to do anything that might hurt him or cause problems between us.
Thanks for your input. I hope things are going more smoothly for you.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
