I find it interesting too, that my H "OW" was a party girl got a tattoo with his name on her and he will not "let me" get one they are not classy and I am he says.I do not get it?
And actually I wish I knew none of this but he gave me way too much info many times and I did not even ask...
Why your H doesnt like you to come home tipsy I dunno, But a funny thing like that happened to me shortly before reconciliation , he got upset @ a micro mini I was wearing one day and weeks before he did not even care that I had it on,,, maybe once they chooose to recommit they have different expactations,, we do so they must ? I DUNNO just my 2 cents.
God bless... Ali