"Officially" piecing... now the real work begins..

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I used to turn into an 8yr old little girl w/my father, even after I got married and stuff he always thought he could boss me around and I was careful not to do stuff that would dissagree w/him. But enough is enough. When you tell him you emphasize that this desicion makes you VERY happy and that this is waht you want, sorry if he doesn't feel the same but this is your decision, thank him for "supporting" you, the end, bye bye now...

Luckily, all 2 people who knew about my mess supported us getting back together, but had my extended family had known, (all zillion of them) hell would've broken loose.

Ron, about your post

the same place as no DBing would have

Have you learned nothing by allthis ordeal? I bet you have, yea, it could've been over faster but I believe that all that pain made each of us grow in a way nothing else could've have. I'm sorry it didtn' work fo ryou, but it wasn't because you didnt' try and that's something to be proud of, you went out fighting and that makes a huge difference.