It could have worked out and then I would have been so glad that I didn't listen to them.



This is how it went for me.. my Family wanted me to close the door,, I on the other hand did not.... it is hard to watch someone you love suffer.My Family wanted me to close the door and couldn't understand why I would allow him to put me thru so much agony...
Even thru the separation, I felt pain of my own but also pain for my H being so lost, I even once told him.

"I do not envy you and May God bless you cause you are soo lost and I will pray for you b/c I would not want to be as confused as you are..."
if they see you are Happy and he is Happy like my Family does,, MY hope is that they would understand better and just let go and let God,,

But hey I should follow my Own advice. I just posted on my thread I am petrified of the thought of going to see my inlaws at Christmas,, my FIL he is a doll now my MIL that is another story...
God bless....