It's amazing how one's entire view can completely change!!!! For example, I recognize more strength in me, I see the growth in my husband and the potential for building a much stronger and better marriage.
On the other hand, how do you deal with some people's negativity? I don't even want to tell my father about ending the divorce. He's will just tell me how stupid I am for staying in my marriage. Fortunately he lives faraway and I don't have to talk with him too often. Also, I do have friends going through divorce who think I'm making a mistake too. (Although fortunately I have others who fully support reconciliation and you guys here on this board too. That helps).
Do any of you go through this too? Family members or friends who don't believe in what you're doing?
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
