honestly, my cousin's H did almost what H did to me and we were all thinking "what is wrong w/her? she should never go back w/that looser...yada yada,, etc" NO one had an incling how it feels unless they go through it, naturally she was the first person I called when it happened to me. Well, now that I think about it, she did forgive a whole lot more, I do have a debt but hers (his) became so big they had to sell their very nice home and move into an appt so they'd be able to pay his debts, she is my role model
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
