In my sitch, my W went cold turkey on her A when she told me, and we had no real transition period or separation. I don't know how that makes things different, but I've been at this a couple months now and having them in the home/bed and committed is real nice, but having them "close yet so far away" emotionally can be challenging.
Glad you're making progress!
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
