Okay...I can't even begin to understand why it turns you off so much, but I respect it. If my H ever did that, I'd just have to laugh...so unlike him, you know? But...well, I got a tattoo, discussed it with H. He's not so into it, but it meant the world to me that he accepted it. It's in a discreet location, not somewhere he'd normally see unless it's, um, from behind .
On a somewhat masochistic/humorous note...you could just get on top...and, well...um...graze it a few times. Trust me: I have a piercing through the cartilege (sp?) on the top of my ear, and for a MONTH anytime I rolled over on that side, grazed my ear, etc., it was EXCRUCIATING. The pain might not be worth it to H <evil grin>
Seriously, though, I'm glad you guys are talking it through. That's important.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
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