Ha ha!!! I hadn't noticed that either!!! Looks like he migh be getting rid of the tat in his tit!!! have offered the best compromise I can - he takes it out, lets it heal, we look at ways together of improving our SL, and maybe in the future I'll feel comfortable with him getting his nipple pierced again, in which case I have said I will pay for it. I think he's taking that - will see for sure when we talk tonight. The only thing I could offer him if he wanted to keep it right now was celibacy - harsh I know, but it turns me off SO much. At least with the offer above I'm not saying "no, never" I'm saying "no, not now, maybe later". We shall see. Thank you to everyone for their support here - I'd still be pretty lost without this place! I am worried I will screw up again, but the differnce I think this time is that H is prepared to listen to me now instead of stubbornly digging in his heels, cos he's seen the alternative that can happen if he refuses to listen and he doesn't like it.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
