You seem to have handled a difficult situation really well and your H seems to be trying to find a comfortable solution for you both too. I agree 8 weeks is too long if you cannot bring yourself to go near him in this time. At least H is willing to go back to the clinic and find out. I hope he comes home with an answer that you both like!
Me 34
H 33
S2
Together 10yrs
Married 6yrs
Bomb 12th Aug 06