thank you Rob - your posts on this have been wonderful. I suppose I deserve a lashing for acting like a spoiled brat, you've been very kind and helped me to think. I appreciate it a lot. The 2x4's don't help me much, your posts do. And I suppose I am actin the brat on this one. It's important to him as much as it repels me from him. It's annoying that he has LD but is willing to do things which bring him alone sexual pleasure, I've tried to look at things which bring us BOTH pleasure. I feel frozen out. He has asked me to let him find out if he can take it out soon. All I can do is ask him to remove it. I'm hoping time will help on this one. Certainly freezing him out right back is tit for tat and not useful. There has to be a solution to this which suits both of us, I hope we can find it.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
