Time to Rebuild

[Jen_Jam]

OK, it's getting to me. A while back H and I discussed him getting his nipple pierced. It was during our problem times and I said I wouldnt' like it, he said it's something he's always wanted done. He offered to take it out when we ML.
Now he's got it done - didn't speak to me about it first, just did it. I'm really annoyed. I said I had no interest in looking at it. He said "but we discussed this". I asked how long it would be before he can take it out.
I am angry for 2 reasons:
1. I find it a real turn off. I have bent over backwards to create a happy M and now I feel it's all take take take on his part.
2. He didn't bother telling me, discussing it, just did it. it'a ll part of his free new life I suppose.
It's horrible - my brother has one and it just makes me think of him. I just find them a complete turn off. H has tatoos which I don't really like either, plus other piercing but he is annoying me cos does he not realise how much of a turn off it is for me?
OK, I know, you'll all say I should speak to him about it, I nkow I should but what's the best way? He will want both - keep the piercings and me. I would just like a little more consideration here. I'd love the nipple ring to go, I can't even look at it cos it's horrible and it swells up the anger in me.
I don't want to explode - any ideas here?