Time to Rebuild

[Jen_Jam]

Hey SD thank you (she goes red with shyness at the hero compliment)
All this is normal? Hmmm.....I do shy away from calling myself normal ha ha....but seriously, I'm starting to breath SO MUCH easier now. Yes H and I have problems in our lives, can't be avoided, sometimes life isn't all fun and light, but you know what? None of these problems are impacting on our M in ANY way. (the problems I mean are just the usual - work, money, the weather, how I can reconcile my desire to be slim with my desire to eat chocolate). I now know that if H has any kind of problem I can leave him to fix it himself instead of wading in to regiment his life (yes I am a woman but I do have a Mars style fix it hat). It's quite refreshing really.
Out of all the lessons I learnt from this, th one which is speaking to me loudest right now is happiness comes from oneself. I don't look to H to make me happy, my only source of that is myself. I can control what I do, think, feel thus can control my own happiness. It's very liberating.

OK ...rambling a bit now...SD I'm glad you're sticking about...you have been my GAL guru, I just wished I lived close to you so I could go to all the places you've mentioned. Sounds like a lot of fun!!