Yay I got the Inspirational award!! I note Swashy is on there too. Jeff I think you shold be to - I know the chance of rebuilding your M is quite low but I really admire the way you haven't descended into bitterness and have used it as a chance to grow.

OK - more updates. H still loving and attentive - it's been 4 weeks now and I'm starting to feel that the whole ILYBINILWY was a bad nightmare but it's over now.
One other interesting thing to come up. H and I talked and he said that when I moan about things (work, friends, the usual, not about him at all) he feels he just wants to wave a magic wand and make it all OK and gets frustrated that I am still upset. I told him the magic wand is him listening to me and he doesn't NEED to fix. I then read him some of teh Mars Venus book and guess what..he IS reading it!!!!!!
He is so relieved to know that when I moan about work, parents, friends etc all he needs to do is listen. To be honest, I did the 5LL quiz but I think just being listened to is SO important to me.
OK - and up update, I feel a little bad putting one in to say still going OK but I want to have this to look back on.

Hope all doing well - I am lurking and swooping too in these boards, see if I can pass on any help.

Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.