Here's a thought for your discussion about you on Saturday. Teach H the guidelines we all learned for these kinds of conversations - listen, validate feelings, but DO NOT ATTEMPT TO SOLVE. His first inclination may be to try to FIX FIX FIX your issues from your past (particularly true if you buy into this aspect of the Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus books). Before you unload these things on him, help him clearly understand what you are hoping for from him in return.
Hope it goes well!
Rob
P.S. You are very welcome!
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
