Time to Rebuild

[Jen_Jam]

thank you all! It's good to be me!!
Getting better at this - have noticed in my diary it's full of things like "I want to do XYZ, person A will probably feel bad but that's not my problem." For example, I want to do some earlier classes at the gym. So it means getting to work earlier, getting up earlier etc. I want to be that bit more organised for me. I've noticed if I get into my dynamic mode H starts to feel a bit guilty. Well, I'm not prepared to sacrifice what I want for him anymore. If he feels guilty then all I can do is reassure him that I'm not annoyed with or disappointed in him in any way then let him believe that. I can't stop him feeling guilty and I don't believe me getting more gym time is being selfish. And of course, I will slack off sometimes
Gosh, it feels GOOD to be more assertive!!!