Sounds like a LRT that went well, as least initially. It also sounds like boundries that were accepted and respected. It could be intrerpreted as setting the bar high to help H chose respecting himself and you. Time will tell if he can respect these boundries for a lifetime. My advise is start to strategize if he has a slip up. How will you handle it? This could be an opportunity to be compassionate or LRT.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.