Sounds like a LRT that went well, as least initially.
It also sounds like boundries that were accepted and respected.
It could be intrerpreted as setting the bar high to help H chose respecting himself and you. Time will tell if he can respect these boundries for a lifetime.
My advise is start to strategize if he has a slip up. How will you handle it? This could be an opportunity to be compassionate or LRT.


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.