RR is working as long as you speak softly and don't blame, whine, attack or criticise. You know how when your WAS is in alien mode and you just wish they could really hear you and take on board what you're saying? Well, it's happening to us now. Finally. We are talking and working together, as H says "we'll be OK, we're in this together". My individual C sessions - my word it's coming up from my childhood. Not much I feel like saying on this for the time being, just if anyone has kids out there try to get some time with them and make them feel important once in a while. Anyway - just wanted to update and say it's going well, I have learnt a new way of negotiation with H and he's accepted that it's the new me. He's also accepting that there are things in him he wants to change, he recognises that he contributed to our problems too. We are back on planet Earth and enjoying it. DB does work, but it needed SO MUCH MORE patience than I ever thought possible for one person to have!
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
