Glad you are going to counseling. I started before MC, and it kept me sane. I got to say everything I needed to, got to process it, had help working on ME, had a person advocating for ME. If this C doesn't gel w/you, don't write C off, just find a different person.

I'd been to C about a year or so before all of this b/c of panic attacks, and I found it so helpful.

I hope it works out well for you Jen. AND, you're DARN STRAIGHT you have to keep posting, b/c you have been such a help to me. Really. No going away!!!!!!!!!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!