Man, after reading your whole description of yourself and your H, all I can say is you and I are a lot alike, and our H's are a lot alike. SO similar it's scary.
Glad things are looking up. Definitely keep on posting b/c I'm learning a lot from your path.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!