I am fairly new to this DB game, have been at it for a least a month. I have even had a teleconsultation, which was really helpful. Here is my link with my sitch., please take a peek. http://66.111.66.234/ubb/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic&f=9&t=000682 - (hope this works?!)
Short overview, married 5 yrs., relationship 10. Last 2 years very tough. Tried couseling not so good. I did a lot of pushing H out the door. H did not communicate or share his life too much.
Anyway, H has been gone about 3 mos. and has said it was over from the first day he left. Has pushed for me to file D. I did all the wrong things for the first month (pleading, etc.) and then went dark. After 2 weeks dark, H called to see if I filed, when I said this was not something I wanted H said he would file.
My question for you is how do I get H to see that I have been working on myself and made changes when we have no reason to make contact (no kids, H leaves 1 hour away)??? I feel like H has put me out of his life so that it is very easy to forget me and create new life. If I don't reach out to H, how can I get his interest back???
I am dazed and confused, and really wish I could change things around. Please Help Me!!
