Hi Michele, I have read DB and am reading DR. Here is my link: Super D-Busters Needed Thank you for participating on this board. I am wondering just how to DB my H. He just moved out. In his eyes a mutual decision, but I hated letting him go(know I had to do it). We are seeing a C once every 2 weeks and each other twice a week. I'm not sure how to approach this situation. Have done 180 with pursuing and control. Also have done a 180 on giving advice. I have been doing the LRT as best I can in this situation. Possible identity crisis, MLC. He is WAS, not "in love" with me anymore. Has anger for sexual rejection over the years. This is blaring in his mind. I know it will take time. Just not sure about doing LRT effectively. Also what to do in C, where we are supposed to talk about OR. Thanks Sweet Orange
