He e-mailed me for the first time ever and responded to my response. Also sent a picture. I panicked though when I found he had a job listing sent to him before he went to Taiwan. He's talked about his career going nowhere and his desire to go baack there but not fitting in anywhere at all.
I couldn't sleep.
ANyway my goals are to :
Make marriage Loving, supportive and to appreciate and encourage each other in our careers.
I will set the example by being more loving -- showing I care. I'll do housework when H is around. I will listen to what he says.
I will support his goals and let him know I do. He set up a worksheet to track expenses and I will start making entries.
I will show appreciation by doing things for him.
At the same time:
I will exercise, I will work on my career less hours and more challenging work.