Dear Michelle - If you get time: I just finished reading Divorce Remedy & feel somewaht hopeful for the first time since 10/00 when H starting saying how unhappy he was (after 26 yrs). He moved out 12/01 & agonized over what to do for months b/f he finally filed. Ay first he wanted us to be "friends" & keep communication alive. Every encounter proved so devastationg to me that I avoided them (while longing for them inside) and gradually we have reached the point where very rare communications are about business or more rarely yet, our 4 kids - youngest is 17. My main question is how to implement the 180 or the LR when there is virtually no contact? Our court date in 1/02 and desperation is setting in. Thank you, Tebs
