Sorry to say the only positives in the m aren't really positives they are just normal things like I don't get beaten, I don't get called names, the bills are payed, the trash gets taken to the dump, the lawn gets taken care of.
What I'm hoping for at this time is for h to either sh!t or get off the pot. I don't want the resposibility of making it be over when it seems pretty clear that he doesn't want to try. He seems quite content to just have our m coast along each of us living our own lives as long as the finances stay in order and the house is kept together and the kids are cared for that's all that's important.
