LL,
It doesn't sound like your M is Piecing to me. He sounds like he has more of a relationship to alcohol and sex addiction than the M. It sounds like you're doing some constructive things with your life. It sounds like you're really frustrated with your situation (naturally).

Are you able to identify any positives in the marriage? What are you hoping for at this point?

Concerned_Listener

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching