Neely, I am really glad that my books have given you hope. However, I want them to give you more than hope- I want them to help you construct a plan. You need to go through the 7 steps and really think through what you need to do next. Start by identifying your goals. Make sure they're realistic given your h's frame of mind right now. Write them down and decide whether what you're doing is bringing you closer to your goals or pushing you further away.
