Quote: 2) Fighting is good. Here, a slightly different spin - being a man when you are being taken advantage of - this is good - invokes a primal thing in both sexes that well, can lead to make up sex. Think I posted about my little blow out a couple weeks back with W about giving our S4 some medicine. While that didn't turn into m/up sex, she told me a couple days later she wanted to f me right there - because I was standing up for myself and not being a total wussbag.
Yes and no. I agree that standing up for yourself is good, but HOW you do that is very important. I tend to be defensive and while I am standing up for myself, I am also being abrasive, aggressive and overly emotional, all of which are big "turn-offs" for my W.
When I manage to calmly, with QUIET strength, stand up for myself without any of the extra crap, then yes, I think my status goes up in my W's eyes...and mine for that matter.
