1) Assumptions and expectations - I've been accused of being way to ahead in my thoughts - W would wonder where I was or where I was going (mentally) now I breathe, slow down, paraphrase, UNDERSTAND. Good insight on your part.
2) Fighting is good. Here, a slightly different spin - being a man when you are being taken advantage of - this is good - invokes a primal thing in both sexes that well, can lead to make up sex. Think I posted about my little blow out a couple weeks back with W about giving our S4 some medicine. While that didn't turn into m/up sex, she told me a couple days later she wanted to f me right there - because I was standing up for myself and not being a total wussbag.
You're on the path my friend...don't waver.
And Happy New Year!
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
