I just know you can sense when I'm doing well and don't need to come around to straighten me out. So I wasn't worried. I do like you stopping by to say Hi though.
Yoyo, yeah I've really investigated the advice giving thing. It really (psychologically) establishes a non peer to peer relationship. Hence inequality. Not good for a marriage.
As for my sitch, it's good. I'm still noticing subtle positive changes. Some of them physical. I'm just thinking that at this point the disagreement is over and we are just slowly easing into the physical part comfortably. Feels that way anyway. Nothing to report but better kisses and a more open body language.
I know from experience that if I push it'll backfire so I'm laying low as far as that goes. I'm sure there will be a time though soon for that to change. I'll be watching closely for the cues.
Her chasing me is better though.
One thing that I really notice is that our minds are back in sync with each other. We used to say the same sentences at the same time and we are doing it again. We think amazingly alike sometimes. For the last few years what I have been saying has always been misinterpreted by her in a very negative way, not anymore.
A lot of things she has said has led me to believe her thinking has changed but this one yesterday really stuck with me. We were talking about a friend who is a bit depressed. He has to do some things (like move across country and give up his business) to accomodate his W and he's very depressed.
My W is trying to help him out because "We all make really poor decisions when we are depressed"
