that evil C and the comments about the doctor that's what you have to do next time evil C thing comes up
blow it off like say - yeah whatever
she will ask what you mean then you say it kind of reminds me of the doctor story you told me about years ago here she is helping you when she couldn't even save or help her own marriage so my 'whatever' is a total lack of belief in her to constructively help others
now you say
Quote: before I wanted to suck energy from her, now I want to give it to her
and of course its a better place to be - but you need the balance in that you have gone from one end to the other - find the balance
thats where the key lies
I can't believe I got up this morning and jumped on here - just like old times - and there you where
