I was holding my breathe reading that I really am proud of you - you tried and it didn't quite come off but you lived and you must have just swept away about a million eggshells from under your feet (because there was still some residue hanging around from before)
Quote: eventually the pillows go in between us. In about a halk hour she gets up to go to the bathroom and when she returns she gets in the other bed.
wonder who she can't trust You or Herself????
Quote: We had met a woman there that totally fit into my "type" profile which is pretty specific. I'm certain my W recognized this before me. She kept bringing her up. and did so the next day too.
whats this all about? and why bring it up the next day? this is interesting you are so much better than me by the next day I would have been saying 'look if she is that important to you why don't you go find her'
I think my smart mouth gets me in trouble - whoops - my bad
have you heard that before - I think it is a pretty cool saying the aussie kids say it a lot when you do something and its not real good you just say whoops my baaaaad
there is no comment you can really make to reply to it
anyhow back to more important things
Quote: The next morning things were good.
god would I like to know what she was thinking when life went on like nothing happened were you drinking do you suppose she put it down to your drinking
Quote: I feel pretty damn good about myself and her response to me has nothing to do with me.
and so you should feel good - you tried something different wonder if next time you go somewhere you should book the sleeping place - and then you could book two seperate rooms with a smile 'sweetie - you obviously don't want to sleep with me and I don't want to try and sleep with you after a few drinks so I figure this will suit you better'
maybe its time for a little 180 on your part? so how are you going to do that then?
what do you have coming up next so that you can be the exact opposite of how you were this time maybe NOT dancing maybe dancing with other people
maybe using body language to indicate that you might just might be checking out the talent in the room a bit too much
come on whats the next plan the more you move away the closer she comes the closer you get the more she moves away
what about dropping the rope just as christmas is coming up and you will be invited out to lots of places
what about not window shopping together or doing much together
what about buying yourself a book on body language did you know that less than 10% of communication is verbal think about it you tell someone to come near you without talking and you tell someone to stay far away and not even try to talk to you without talking what else can you say without talking
bj ps am so glad you are alive now all we need to do is work out this little bit of the puzzle and how it all fits time for trying different stuff I reckon
