first off I would like to say Sven you can buy me silk pj's any time
there are lots of analysing happening here but I want to ask how does analysing and working out how you tick - what bothers you and why good for moving forward what does it change for you?
so what are the goals here what do you want your life to be like how long will are you prepared to let things stay the same
if you change nothing then nothing changes I know you agree
so you go out and talk to people and she comes up and puts her arm through yours she is clearly telling people you belong to her your reaction is the one that counts
I would like to see you look at her and say did you want something and then manouvere things so she can no longer link her arm through yours possibly use your own body language to turn slighty away from her create a little confusion and hesitation in her mind
nothing glaringly obvious mind you but subtle
your big problem is when she does this you feel good about so you forget that later she will be back on the couch do you not think you should in public treat her (still with respect) but like the person that sleeps elsewhere and not with sort of like how you would treat me if I were somewhere with you friendly but not intimate if she says anything you just say I don't understand why you want to act intimate with me in public when we are not intimate
I think you need to do something different only you know what to do and what will work
The evil C woman is not only evil she is a moron blame the coffee good job your W didn't have to make breakfast lunch and dinner the stupid woman would have told her to give up food
change something do you want to be posting on here in another ten years do you want to be 60 and still analysing
come on Xue you are on of the smartest people I know (besides me )
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