Interesting Xue...I understand about feeling the immobilization.
I don't think anyone in my family had an affair, but my mom divorced my dad when I was 12 and my brother was 9. Bad time. She married a pretty good guy, but he married a drunk. But no one really gets over that stuff while they're kids...they just deal with it the best they can...do like an oyster and try to make a pearl out of something that's painful.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
