funny things happening over your way I agree with MMO - your wife seems a little emotionally immature - and I am beginning to think that though outwardly she projects as someone with huge self-esteem and being in control inside I think she is not sure who she is and has not yet found a balance being female, being strong, and having confidence in and likeing who she is
she seems to have an idea of a strong woman and then has a picture of herself and maybe her self image isn't matching up to what she thinks is a stong independent woman
I must say she sounds very interesting to be around I love the way she she jumps around a little and puts things out there to see what you think
Breast implants well I can honestly say I have never needed them but I have often been in places and situations where people (males) seem to have a problem understanding that my eyes are a little higher than the spot they are staring at I actually think that to have large breasts - real or otherwise - you really need to be comfortable with who you are Jane Fonda is probably very comfortable with her self as a person and felt ok about implants- she certainly does not strike me as someone who would have gotten them for anyone other than herself
wonder what your wife would say about me - I just got my hair extensions put back in long blonde locks people at work are calling me Malibu Barbie
I think its hilarious - but its looks cool and yes I do the thing from the Pink song
flicking my long hair back (the damn thing actually gets in the way and I have to flick)
but I most certainly don't think that it has changed who I am and neither did the eyebrow ring or the tatoo I got infact I think it makes me more interesting a clever Malibu Barbie
I think that now is the time to make a move am thinking one of two it will be you who will have to decide you either need to GAL of your own BIG TIME and see what happens like you have made this cognitive decision that you have waited long enough and will wait no more or put the move on her when she least expects it
and for the post on buying clothes previously clothes in general are usually fine - though personally I prefer to get my own with assistance from the male but sexy lingerie - that is a strange feeling it kind of feels like - you don't think I am sexy enough without it - you can only want me when I wear it - you don't like who I am - you are making it with the lingerie not me
its strange and very hard to put in writing but its the thoughts and feelings that it conjures up and I would only ever suggest buying it a) together and b) when the relationship is great all the time much better to have the female buy it herself and for you to make sure your eyes pop out of your head when she wears it
now Xue everytime you go out and do things on your own she calls and checks up on you or invites herself along you really need to rock her boat a little or this could on indefinately next time she talks about strong independent woman just say - yes - like you you are a strong independent woman thats why I like you
notice like not love wonder if she will notice that
instead of you trying and being happy why not be a little quiet and thoughtful say you are thinking about your life as it is (if she asks why you can say that you are evaluting where your life is going - or something like that) rock the boat shake up the status quo
