Well you've got a good point there and I've decided that certain lines of thinking are beneficial and others are not. I've finally figured out that I have not recieved one bit of benefit from analyzing her. I cannot think of any and I doubt it has occured. However it most likely has caused me a great deal of pain and has damaged the R.
However analyzing interactions has been beneficial. That has been a plus and has helped me break the negative interaction patterns.
Analyzing myself has also been of great benefit.
I haven't made my move yet. Wrong time of month and I've been playing around with some other ideas first. But soon my friend, soon.
I posted my question about Jamie Fraser over on a forum devoted to the book series. I got an immediate response but the funny thing was it was not all the fantasy stuff I expected. It was all about listening skills and not fixing things, all that good stuff. Stuff I've already been working on pretty hard.
