Good point and thanks for giving that venusian point of view. Good stuff.
I think we all want to see X succeed - what I guess I was getting at was for X to take control of the situation and I guess I should have said "X, buy yourself some new pj's" - then make your move.
GH left a great post - and he is taking control of the situation and reaping the benefits. Read his post again X and then make a move and worry not about the outcome.
I hate to steal your thread, but question for bj or any other women out there - please explain or confirm/deny that buying clothes is completely taboo. On the occasions where I have, it has worked tremendously well. Of course I've always gone for stuff that is more elegant than "dirty" - in fact AWAW was recanting with a friend on the phone the other day about the time I bought her a dress, asked her to wear it on our next date - and she was talking about how great that was - in large part because I was controlling the situation (it seemed).
Just thinking out loud....
Sven
X - you make that move yet?
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
