Question is: Has he made up his mind? His family has made up theirs and for the moment he is allowing them to call the shots, but I still see him bouncing back and forth. He put down a deposit on a house with me, then backed out a week later just before signing? He wants counseling, he doesn't, he needs to think, he's thought about it. Doesn't sound like anything is made up to me. It looks like he is avoiding the issue so that he doesn't have to make up his mind. My H has had a big problem lately with making any kind of decisions of any kind, and I know now that that is part of the depression.
I refuse to give up hope, although I know it sounds some times like I have. This emotional roller-coaster is hell and I only hope that when the ride ends, we are together again.
