Last night we were talking about someone else who is having marriage troubles. 19 years of marriage and the wife says she's always been unhappy. I've heard that before. I try not to be party to that info but (business relationship) but it ends up in my lap.
Of course the conversations with my w on the subject she wants to blame it all on him. He has some really messed up problems stemming from a freakish childhood so it's easy. He's a friend but he's not at all ready for any help. He'll have to come to it when he's ready.
But anyway last night I'm talking to my wife and she's saying how pissed the W is and how she'll probably be sleeping on the couch if she stays there at all, what a loser. And she goes on a bit about it.
My wife sleeps on the couch.
I don't know if that slipped out and she realized it or what. It certainly wasn't directed at me but it did get to me.