oh Xue (and Sven)

don't ever try to avoid the problem

we females love a good 'chat' about life and its problems
you martians make the mistake here - your all about fixing
lifes problems - learn to listen - ask relevant questions and then wait (don't fix till asked)

we 'chat' you takeover and fix and we get pooeey about it
so from here on we 'chat' you listen
and we come closer
got it?

bj

my thread