Hi Michelle:

My H and I have been separated since Sept. 2, using a controlled separation agreement. We agreed on 2 months, with the contract expiring this Friday, Nov. 2. During this time we have not talked at all about what will happen on Nov. 2, he has not shared with me anything at all about what he wants, we have not talked about our R at all. He says we will talk on the 2nd or 3rd.

I've been working with my special angels on the bb on what my goals are, what needs to happen if H wants to return home, and I finally found an SBT therapist in my area last week and saw her for the first time and will see her again tomorrow. We'll also talk about this subject.

Any advice on how to handle all this?