Do you like being married to your H except for his annoying HD behavior?
Do you like the idea of marriage in general? Do you feel like you would like to be married to someone, if not your H?
Would you like to be married to a man who did not desire you sexually?
The point that I'm trying to make is that if you want to be married and you want to be married to a man who desires you sexually and you want to be married to a man who is happy then you need to figure out some way to start being sexual. Otherwise you just aren't being rational about achieving your own desires, forget about your husbands.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
