Ok, I gave it a go. Last Sunday morning I rolled over and cuddled H. Of course he wanted more than a cuddle and that annoyed me (he says all the time that all he needs is a cuddle, yeah right!) but I decided that in order to do something about our SL I would have to just move past the annoyance and try and enjoy it. I really, really tried (and so did he), but I could not get 'fired up'. It really sucked actually, but he was happy. I didn't think of it at the time, but I should have just given him oral or a handy. That way I wouldn't have felt useless.
Oh, he did go fishing after.
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
